{"id":117,"date":"2004-03-26T11:43:00","date_gmt":"2004-03-26T11:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/2004\/03\/todays-bits-of-randomness\/"},"modified":"2004-03-26T11:43:00","modified_gmt":"2004-03-26T11:43:00","slug":"todays-bits-of-randomness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/2004\/03\/todays-bits-of-randomness\/","title":{"rendered":"Today&#8217;s bits of randomness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Right now I&#8217;m listening to the music of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.musicindiaonline.com\/music\/l\/XX01000Q01\">1942 &#8211; A Love Story.<\/a> Once again, I can&#8217;t remember how I got there. I remember reading something about Kavita Krishnamurthy and suddenly decided I needed to listen to the music from this movie. Lovely songs.<\/p>\n<p>I finally did my taxes today. I had all the forms and crap ready, just was too lazy to fill the damn things out and mail them. Well, now that&#8217;s done. So I should get my return soon. I really need it, it&#8217;s around 500 bucks!! \ud83d\ude42 It&#8217;s not fair that I&#8217;m not allowed to file online. It is so easy to do it online!<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of which, my life is rapidly transforming into a complete online existance. I spend my time on my computer recording bee dances, writing software for the lab, reading papers, and I even do my notes on it. For the classes I teach, I make my presentations, find videos, visuals, resources all online. My bank and credit cards don&#8217;t send me statements in the mail. All online. When I do get bills from the university, I get them online. My <a href=\"http:\/\/www.consumersenergy.com\">electricity<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.comcast.com\">cable<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attws.com\">phone<\/a>, all online. Wheeeee! And not to mention all the time I spend chatting on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\">flickr<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>I got mad today. Maybe also a bit sad. I&#8217;m wondering if I&#8217;m too pushy online. Maybe I&#8217;m trying to be friends with people who would rather keep their distance from me. I posted a couple of comment on someone&#8217;s blog and soon after those comments were posted, that blog was made &#8220;friends only&#8221; and hence locked me out. It wasn&#8217;t the first time I&#8217;ve commented there, but I guess I rubbed that person the wrong way this time. I wouldn&#8217;t be so mad, if at least I was told that I was not wanted. I hate the indirectness of the whole thing. There&#8217;s also an element of hypocrisy involved, but lets not go into that here. For all I know that person is reading this now. Well, see, I don&#8217;t care. This is what I feel, and I don&#8217;t need to hide it from the world.<\/p>\n<p>Well, it&#8217;s also possible I&#8217;m being paranoid and overreacting (I tend to do the latter a lot) but somehow I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s the case this time.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, this incident kind of made me think a bit about my online presence. I do tend to insinuate myself into conversations, posts, etc. I never really thought that if I was unwelcome I wouldn&#8217;t be told so. What if I&#8217;m the online equivalent of that guy no one really wants to talk to but don&#8217;t know how to say so? Oh man, now I&#8217;m horrified. Have I just been bugging a <b>lot<\/b> of people all these months? So I&#8217;ve decided then to tone down all the chatting, posting, silly jokes, stupid crap that I&#8217;m always spouting. Maybe even be more insular too. Ok, that&#8217;s done.<\/p>\n<p>Just had to mention here, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/profile.gne?id=34427466389@N01\">Shambly Hermit<\/a> met <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/profile.gne?id=37996595766@N01\">hey leto<\/a> on flickr and pointed me at her <a href=\"http:\/\/leto.co.nz\/\">blog<\/a>. This is really good reading! I so wish I could write like her! Oddly, I have not met her on flickr yet, but I think when I do, I might just gush all about how much I like her blog. hehe&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Right now I&#8217;m listening to the music of 1942 &#8211; A Love Story. Once again, I can&#8217;t remember how I got there. I remember reading something about Kavita Krishnamurthy and suddenly decided I needed to listen to the music from this movie. Lovely songs. I finally did my taxes today. I had all the forms&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/2004\/03\/todays-bits-of-randomness\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Today&#8217;s bits of randomness<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[4,9,12,34],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/117"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=117"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/117\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=117"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=117"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/absolutegeeky.com\/oook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=117"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}